Saturday, May 31, 2008

What We Do at Manzanita Village

Engaged Buddhism is an oxymoron. Buddhism is engaged by nature, and so is life. What, after all, is disengagement? It is machinery that no longer works, negotiations that have broken down, relationships that are over, mental illness . . . Disengagement, at it’s very best, can be no better than indifference or disassociation.

We use the term “Engaged’ to make a point. The point being, that we are made whole through the world rather than by imagining the world to be tainted or broken and withdrawing from it – whether through spiritual practice, hedonism, or even activism.

Understanding the interconnectedness of all things, and cultivating that understanding, inevitably leads to a particular world view. As we cultivate that view, it becomes stronger; not like a conviction we hold, rather as a predisposition to trace new connections, and to revise our old views and opinions. It expresses itself as a willingness to grow, and learn, and change.

Compassion is energized by the recognition that we are more effective when we neither to blame imagined oppressors, nor try to 'save' apparent victims, nor even to change the circumstances that we perceive to be causing suffering.

Something more. . .

That level of understanding is scary. We must let go of ‘them’ and ‘us’, and look for solutions rather than drama. We can no longer be nourished by unhealthy relationships. We stand on our own feet. We are no longer just looking for a way to get by.

In short, we are engaged. . .
like a warrior preparing for the unknown, or a poet alert for the next flickering turn of sensibility, meaning, and sound.

Watercolor by Michele Benzamin-Miki

Friday, May 2, 2008

Going Backwards

Imagine having to reverse a car down the highway, and calculate the turns in the road based on where you had just been, and with a tiny mirror catch occasional glimpses of the road ahead. Wouldn't that make driving very difficult?

People often understand meditation practice as a way of learning to live in the present moment. But living in the present moment does not mean that you cannot dream, imagine, or plan for the future.

Living in the present moment may not be a panacea for all your troubles!

Traditional psychotherapy has often been accused of dwelling too much on past causes. Meditation practice (specifically traditional buddhist practice) trains you to live in the present moment, and to create the inner flexibility needed to effect changes.

Our coaching model helps you brings past, present, and future together; to understand causes of the past, to be fully alive and present here and now AND to create and build a vision for your future, and USE the specific skills that can turn that vision it into reality.

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